Apologies for the huge absence.. apparently, the shoutbox is against the hosts' terms. Big bunch of Mr Moo Poo, as far as I'm concerned, but they removed it.
Without going into great detail, my mother's ex is a complete psychopath, went round the twist and tried to attack me, so I had to go into hiding. I'm now back in action. My mother's ex is now in prison. Lovely.